看了一篇文章, 30's
1. learn how to say 'no' to people, activities and obligations that don't bring value to your life.
2. don't tolerate people who don't treat you well. Period. Don't tolerate them for emotional reasons. Don't tolerate them for children sake or convenience sake.
3. stay away from miserable people.....they will consume you, drain you...
4. surround yourself and only date people that make you a better version of yourself, that bring out your best parts, love and accept you.
5. you can't have everything; focus on doing a few thigs really well.
6. everything in life is a trade-off. You give up one thing to get another and you can't have it all. Accept that.
7. don't be afraid of taking risks, you can still change.
8. you must continue to grow and develop yourself.
9. be kind to yourself
10. When confronted with a perceived problem, ask yourself, 'Is this going to matter in five years, ten years?' if not, dwell on it for a few minutes, then let it go." It seems many readers have focused on the subtle life lessons of simply accepting life as is warts and all.
11. Be a little selfish and do something for yourself everyday, something different once a month and something spectacular every year.
鱼儿
想逃离，首先，须知道要通往哪里．
一边埋怨，一边将就, 活在一样的星空下,
五年,十年，
或许应该
停一停,
看一看,
想一 想,
到底要怎样的一个星空.
source:the 10 most important lessons to master in your 30's
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